Cuckold Stories

We all know and love Reddit. For those of you who might not have heard of it before, although it’s highly unlikely that you haven’t, it’s an American social news aggregation, web content rating, and discussion website comprising user-generated content including photos, videos, links, and text-based posts. There are approximately 330 million Reddit users, as of 2019, called "Redditors."

Reddit has specific online communities dedicated to a particular topic that people write about called "subreddits." They are denoted by /r/, followed by the subreddit’s name, ex. /r/funny.

The design of the website is nice and clean, and the UI can be easily navigated, with no hidden tabs, no categories, no need to sift through content that is not appealing to you, everything is right there for your reading pleasure. Today, we’re diving into their good old-fashioned Cuckold community, which is relatively new out there, created in 2014 with a reach of over 30k people over five years.

The mobile version of the site, in all honesty, is better than the PC equivalent, mostly because you get to satisfy your kink on-the-go. Do you have a long train trip? Just pull out your phone, type in the domain, and you’re on your way to heavenly bliss if that’s your shtick.

The History of this Fascinating Sexual Kink

Chances are you’ve heard the word ‘cuckold’ before. But how much do you know about what it means? Believe it or not, there isn’t one fully agreed-upon answer to this seemingly simple question “What is a cuckold?” The truth is that being cuckold today means something very different from what it did when the word was first coined. The original meaning of "cuckold" is super old. It meant being the wronged husband of an adulterous woman. The word is derived from the cuckoo bird, which is known for laying its eggs in the nests of other birds. Only in this case, instead of eggs, it's a wife “laying” in the beds of other men.

An essential part of this definition is the notion that the husband has no idea that his wife is "pulling one over on him." Calling a man a cuckold is to mock him, according to this definition. Not only is he not "man enough" to keep his woman from straying, but he is also a fool who doesn't have the slightest clue of his wife's infidelity.

Another phrase you'll often hear paired with "cuckold" is the ancient definition of the word "wearing the horns" as in "he's wearing the horns of a cuckold." When someone mentions horns in this sense, they are referring to the mating rituals of stags. You know, because male stags fight each other using their horns to win themselves a nice looking female stag. Slang has changed a lot over the years.

We still use the word cuckold today, but not in a source of mockery. It is most often used to refer to a beloved sexual fetish. In that way, cuckolding is a subset of the BDSM kink world. Cuckolding, or cucking is also sometimes referred to as hotwifing, you know, like hot-wiring a car. But with a wife. While many other sexual fetishes have become more accepted in the mainstream thanks to popular media like the infamous 50 Shades of Grey, cuckolding is still something that stays in the closet. That said, it's still a really popular fetish, allegedly even in Hollywood. Tiger Woods, in a letter to his mistress, is said to have fantasized about coming home to find her having sex with two men.

In fetish usage, a cuckold is a man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people for his pleasure. There is, of course, an equivalent moniker bestowed on women who like to watch their men having sex with other people. They are called cuckqueans. You don't need to look very far on the internet to see that cuckqueans are everywhere. 

Many women love the idea of watching their men have sex with other women. They also get a great deal from this experience. She gets to be admired and wanted by two men at once, and she gets to explore her sexuality and engage with sex with a stranger as well as have a sexual experience with her partner at the same time.

Cuckolding, not always, but for the most part, begins or is a result of the HUSBANDS kink of wanting his wife to step outside the marriage. It's the ultimate sacrifice and gift, and that's the dream of every submissive in a BDSM relationship. Being a cuckold or a cuckquean is by no mean an exclusively heterosexual practice. Gay and lesbian couples can also (and do regularly) enjoy this particularly racy and satisfying sexual fetish. 

Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes. On one end are the masochistic cuckolds, who enjoy humiliation, degradation, and other demeaning activities at the hands of his/her partner and their lover. The alpha cuckold, on the other hand, does not enjoy any form of humiliation, while often deciding who the partner sleeps with and when.

Usually, couples that can keep the fantasy in the bedroom, come to an agreement not to let cuckolding cause any damage to the relationship and try it out.

However, the primary proponent for this fantasy is always one being humiliated; the lover is convinced by the cuckold to participate in the fantasy for them, although in some cases, it is preferred that the lover initiates the situation. Instead, if the cuckold is being humiliated against their will, the fetish fantasy does not work at all.

There are entire books on the psychology behind this. A quick search will reveal that almost every man ejaculates harder, longer, and with far more sperm when he thinks there is any chance his partner may have strayed. It is said that cuckolding (or more accurately, all masochism) is a form of escaping from self-awareness, specifically in those times when self-awareness becomes slightly burdensome. That being said, this theory reveals that the physical or mental pain from masochism can take one's mind away from the self, which would be very desirable in times of insecurity, guilt, anxiety, or at other times when self-awareness is not pleasant. 

Some of the typical fantasies a man may have when interested in cuckolding are: wife simply flirts with other men, wife goes on a date with another man, wife, and husband have a threesome with another man (cuckolding would imply the husband gets or does less than the other man otherwise it’s just merely wife sharing), wife has sex with men outside marriage without consent/knowledge of husband and many more. There are many many more variants, but you get the idea. There is a wide variation of things that CAN be but not necessarily are involved in this game/lifestyle, all of which are part of cuckolding.

A Safe Space

The sole purpose of this community is to give people a safe place to engage in conversation, without any stigma about their juicy fetish. What’s appealing about this website is the fact that it’s easy to navigate, everything is just there in plain sight. Just the fact that this site even exists, providing a safe haven for those sultry fetish lovers, is somewhat of a miracle/God sent. It’s pretty straight-forward. You get on, you read titillating stories about people’s experiences, join in on the comments, share your own experiences, and get your fix for the day.

There isn’t

Much to dislike about this site. The only possible gripe you could have is that the place is not moderated, and people have a tendency to make up stories just for the kicks, which causes some chaos in the comments when there are people who are just there to stir up debates as in why this fetish is “sick” and “unacceptable”.

But on the other hand, the lack of moderation is precisely what makes Reddit appealing. It is a place for the masses where people get together to make their own rules and respect each other in their unique ways. As a subreddit, /r/cuckoldstories is an excellent example of how Reddit can be a friendly and welcoming place for people from all walks of life.

Conclusion

There is a lot that goes into this topic. It would appear that real cuckolds today are not pushovers, weaklings, idiots, or anything else you might consider derogatory. Cuckolds are men who have found a niche sexual fetish that appeals to them and makes them happy. They aren't causing any harm, and they don't deserve to be publicly shamed. There is a lot that goes into this topic. But if you do identify with this fetish too, you should probably check out /r/cuckoldstories