AbuseMe

Abuse Me is an excellent hardcore premium amateur porn site that focuses on violent yet erotic BDSM and fetish porn. The site is relatively new to this somewhat crowded niche, having only begun to upload videos in 2014, but in the years since it has become a power player in the genre due to its high-quality videos. The site has very few boundaries—fans of tame vanilla porn might find it too extreme, but lovers of rough sex, anal, throatfucking, and BDSM will find exactly what they’re looking for at Abuse Me.

What’s There Is Great, But There Isn’t Enough Content

The members-only section of Abuse Me is about as perfect as it can get. By default, you’re first presented with an array of the site’s top-rated videos. A few of them will contain automatically-playing video previews of the scene’s best moment, while each other video can be moused over to show a selection of a couple of thumbnails. Below that is a “Being Watched Now” section, which, due to the site’s small library, usually has a fair bit of overlap with the top videos. When there isn’t a lot to choose from these sections tend to, unfortunately, be very similar.

Below that are a few more options for browsing Abuse me—by default, the next section will show you the latest uploads (which at this point in time are more than two years out of date)—but you can also switch to have this part of the site show you Abuse Me’s most-favorited and most-viewed scenes.

Since Abuse Me has a small number of videos, these sections should be sufficient for most people. The library is manageable enough that you can usually make a selection by looking at the thumbnails or briefly examining the titles and descriptions. But, if this approach doesn’t suit you, the site also offers alternative methods.

The top-right corner of the site hosts a categories tab. By clicking it you’ll see a small selection of Abuse Me’s most popular categories while moving on to the main categories page will show you every single option. The site balances its categories well, with the selection combining accuracy and amount as well as any other site. The search function at Abuse Me is great, too. Owing both to the aforementioned excellent categories as well as the titles, descriptions, and even cast listings, this works about as well as any site’s search. Even the director of each video is cataloged for use in searches—and while it’s hard to imagine many people finding this information particularly useful, more metadata is always a good thing.

For similar reasons, Abuse Me’s video recommendations engine works great. When videos are accurately described, tagged, and categorized, well-created algorithms are able to provide surprisingly relevant suggested videos. This doesn’t work in practice on many sites, but Abuse Me is one of the good ones in this regard.

The video playback page is equally excellent. The player allows you to adjust the video quality on the fly, and although it doesn’t offer fast-forward or slow-motion functions, it does load extraordinarily quickly. This page also allows you not only to download the video in your choice of resolution but also offers you downloads of individual photos or screencaps, as well as the option to grab either collection in its entirety as a .zip file.

The lone major area in which Abuse Me does not approach perfection is in the size of its catalog. Though it has been around for over half a decade, the site has not at any point adopted a regular upload schedule. Videos appear in bursts, and then weeks and months will go by without a single additional upload. At this point in time, it even seems like the site’s owners have ceased to upload new content altogether, meaning the small library might be all Abuse Me ever has. As such, there are only a handful of videos on the site, and any regular visitor to Abuse Me will quickly exhaust its catalog.

The only other issues with Abuse Me are minor—there are a few sidebar ads, but they’re small enough that they don’t really get in the way. Thankfully, there are no popup ads or pre-video ads, which tend to be a lot more annoying. The site, though not exactly beautiful, is perfectly usable and functional on desktops, laptops, and all major mobile devices.

At Least It’s Affordable

Abuse Me appears a bit lighter on subscription options than some of its competitors, but this isn’t anything worth complaining about for two reasons. First and foremost this is due to the fact that every single choice is at least adequate. Abuse Me cuts out the several options in the mid-range of length in favor of what are typically the best choices anyways. If you’re just trying to check out what the site has to offer, they have a single day trial for just a dollar that gives you access to the entire catalog—but, as is often the case, the renewal rate (forty dollars per month here) is more expensive than the normal month-to-month plan (which only costs twenty-five bucks), so don’t let your membership continue unchecked.

On that note—make sure you pay attention to the box offering a trial membership to a third party porn site, which is checked by default during the subscription process. The trial itself is affordable, but just as with Abuse Me itself, it renews at a fairly overpriced rate—the site is worth checking out, but you can a better deal by signing up with them directly if you’re so inclined.

The only other advertised plans, after the trial and monthly options, is to pay for a full year in advance for the equivalent of just under ten dollars per month. Between the three, these are really all that you could ask for: in almost all cases, membership options in between these are a bad mix of length and cost, so this is really what you should stick to in any case.

But, despite not being advertised anywhere on the site, once you do get into the nitty-gritty of making payments you will notice a few other options. In fact, Abuse Me goes in the exact opposite direction, offering even more than your standard array of choices. On top of the relatively common ninety-day subscription they offer a possibly unique one week plan—but, again, these plans are probably better off ignored by a majority of potential subscribers.

No matter which plan you choose, your only payment options will be to transfer funds via credit card—there is no option to use PayPal, bank transfer, or any alternative methods. To make matters even more restrictive, Abuse Me only accepts three types of cards (Visa, MasterCard, and Discover), compared to the six-plus that many sites allow.

But Is It Worth It?

The videos on Abuse Me are well worth its price if you’re a fan of its brand of porn, but the incredibly small library size and low potential for it to ever substantially grow goes a long way towards harming the site’s long-term viability. Abuse Me, if given care and attention by Bang Bros, could be one of the best porn sites around, but in its current state that isn’t the case. Every major part that a great porn site needs is in place, but the execution just isn’t there.

Every single one of the videos is, without exaggeration, excellent. But a dedicated viewer could watch all of them in a month or so, and even a casual fan would exhaust the library over a full year's subscription. When combined with the fact that each membership option includes download capabilities, it’s practically impossible to argue for the utility of staying a member for years and years.

For this reason, it is hard to recommend continually subscribing to Abuse Me, but since the videos themselves are so excellent, it’s equally difficult to suggest that the site should be ignored altogether. If you’re a fan of hardcore porn, Pornsites.com recommends a short-term membership to Abuse Me, since the content itself is too good to pass up.